What do you look out for when choosing a partner?

Nearing the turn of the third decade of our lives, especially, the mid and late twenties, is characterised with thoughts of career paths to choose, particular jobs to do and certain standards we want to attain.

Another most important but challenging decision we tend to brood our heads about is obviously the kind of life partners we want to live our lives with.

These inevitable decisions become one hell of a conundrum or us (I have been able to make this decision anyway๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…).

Suddenly, fear of whether we can actually accomplish those dreams in the future starts to trickle in.๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ™

The tenacious turbulence that emanates from these choices we make usually prevents us from making certain decisions with the fear that we will be held responsible when the outcome of the decisions turn out sour.

However, no matter how nebulous the future may appear; no matter how scary the decision may be, we still have to make them because when we come to terms with the fact that not making a decision is absolutely making a wrong decision, we will feel more pressured, and we will also face reality.

As young as we are, we need to ascertain the qualities of a good partner for relationship and marriage before making a choice of such partners for a lasting relationship.

There is no denying that someoneโ€™s looks are what initially draws us to them.๐Ÿ˜Š

Itโ€™s sometimes difficult to spot a great personality from across the room.

Many a fling was built on physical attraction alone, but how can it last?

For me, a woman who believes both in her and my visions and is willing to support and encourage us to pursue those goals is important when considering a long term future together.๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

Again, Iโ€™m not quite sure how to explain this one. I just feel the word โ€˜kind-heartedโ€™ in itself will get the point across. A woman who is thoughtful โ€“ who does small things for you for no other reason than she loves you as you do for her,๐Ÿ’ž a woman who when she smiles at you,๐Ÿ˜Š gives you no choice but to smile back,๐Ÿ˜Š a woman who radiates warmth from her heart,โค should not escape the qualities youโ€™re looking for.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜š

However, no matter how profound those qualities may seem, missing a link in your choice can mar the relationship into rubbles.

Errrmโ€ฆbefore I get roasted by people who think Iโ€™m in no position fit to talk about relationship matters๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ because of reasons best known to them, let me just ask you this. What do you look out for when choosing a partner?

{Leave your answer in the comment box below}

Till next time, this is from my mindโ€™s mind.

Useless column, donโ€™t read.
I donโ€™t seem to understand why mere fictional movies can make me cry.๐Ÿ˜ญ No matter how much I hate doing so, I still cry anyway.๐Ÿ˜ I thought I was the only one so weird about this till I went to the movies with her, and I must admit, the movie was a bit scary๐Ÿ‘บ๐Ÿ‘น๐Ÿ‘ฟ. It was still fiction anyway.๐Ÿ’

She barely watched the movie and when her eyes finally met with one of the scenes, she screamed๐Ÿ˜ฑโ€ฆI mean, she yelled๐Ÿ˜ฒ as if she was being caught by a monster that very moment. It was when I realised we are all weirdoes. You are too, for reading this column.๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

Published by Nanayawinforms

Far from being the pious injection of a utopian dreamer, the command to love one another is an absolute necessity for our survival.

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